nike:
well...if you only know how to study, what you will get later? Can your life be really better if you just study like a hell? I can get good grade, but I cant get good job. Simply, I have no greecard. I dont even get chance for an interview when the company knows I am a foreigner. They know I am good, and hire one like me is worthy, but they just dont want to give me a chance. They rather give a position to a stupid lazy citizen. So for someone like me...get an work permit or greencard means much more than study hard. Of course, find a gf is not only for that, but it will be something important.