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关于寂寞、关于孤独

winege@2003-07-21 21:43

寂寞是一种情绪，是孤独里生出的无奈
孤独是一种状态，充实或是寂寞是它的不同表现
有人用工作来填充
有人用交际来打发
用爱情只是其中的一种，但含着某种危险
寂寞可以让一些人疯狂，然后忘却
也可以让另一些人去思考，然后在自己的思考中成熟并升华

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鬼炎火@2003-07-21 23:57

是一首诗!?真的感受叹万分..........

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ThunderBird@2003-07-21 23:57

虽然在寂寞中，人会变得成熟理智。但寂寞也会让人走向极端。

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emb422@2003-07-25 04:37

Isn't lonleness a weakness of human nature? I believe so, for a perfect human being would not make himself/herself lonly at all. he/she can always enjoy things to fill their desire of company, such as reading, entertaining, etc. But i guess human are created to be social animals, and without company can be very frustrating to some people. Frustration leads to agressivness, or hatrad towards the society and cause many problems. In conclusion---don't be lonely if you can aviod it, and if you must, face it and mitigate it as much as you can.

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winege@2003-07-25 07:24

Sometime we need to be lonely desperately,cause when we stay with ourselves,we can think clearly and deeply,and can plan for ourselves. To be lonnely is a perfect part of our life

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emb422@2003-07-25 11:30

So, acording to what winege said, I would like to say that a balanced person would be one who knows and controls neatly and properly about when and when not to be lonely.

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ThunderBird@2003-07-25 13:05

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最初由 emb422 发布
Isn't lonleness a weakness of human nature? I believe so, for a perfect human being would not make himself/herself lonly at all. he/she can always enjoy things to fill their desire of company, such as reading, entertaining, etc. But i guess human are created to be social animals, and without company can be very frustrating to some people. Frustration leads to agressivness, or hatrad towards the society and cause many problems. In conclusion---don't be lonely if you can aviod it, and if you must, face it and mitigate it as much as you can.

也不至于那么严重啦~~在孤独的时候可以做很多事，想很多事。周围人太多了反而会被迷惑。。。。

人是XX进化来的，而那个XX就是群体生活的。为什么呢？是为了生存，现在之所以可以被孤立，因为我们已经可以做到靠自己一个人生活。

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ThunderBird@2003-07-25 13:07

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最初由 emb422 发布
So, acording to what winege said, I would like to say that a balanced person would be one who knows and controls neatly and properly about when and when not to be lonely.

A balanced person? 会计学多了，被BALANCED的感觉怪怪的。。。。。

昨天做梦居然又要考IELTS了。。。。。。

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Conanzsw@2003-07-25 19:33

一个人的好^_^清静～

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bigbear3131@2003-07-26 01:06

喜欢一个人清静的感觉。。。虽然有时候会非常想跟朋友出去走走

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just4u@2003-07-26 03:16

一个人的时候有一个人的 freedom ar~ ^ ^

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shelly@2003-07-26 03:24